6 Simple Ways to Make a Girl Fall in Love with You
How to make the girl I like to fall in love with me? We’d whisper the exact question to ourselves at some moments of our life. Sometimes, we are in the midst of fog and uncertain of what should we do next to grab her attention?
It’s true that love is an intricate algorithm that cannot be formulated nor calculated. However, we do able to simplify it by knowing some of the dos and do not. The below guidelines would definitely help you in your journey of love and hopefully will help you to gain her heart too.
1. First Date = Good Impression
First dating can be quite nerve-wreaking even for ‘experienced’ guy. However, first date is the critical moment for you to impress your dream girl and thus open the future bridge. What should you do in the first date? Nothing wrong to plan a stereotypical dinner plus movie date but most importantly is to be your true self, be unique, be a man of his own style.
Dress decently – indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language – obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits – don’t drink or smoke like any other loser.
2. Befriending and Understanding the Girl
Ladies are the entities love to be loved, adore to be adored, need to be needed. Understanding this will move you closer to the girl you like and you’ll get to know what she’s into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is.
Make the girl feel special. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
3. Train Your Shoulder and Ear
A solid shoulder and the sensitive but silent ears are the deadly weapon to girls. Always be a good listener and don’t hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of life and restoring hope back into her life when she loses hope. Sooner or later, she will open the door of her heart to you and you’re on the right track by the time.
4.Balance your Self-Esteem
Although it might be a little rude to say: “You always have somebody to choose”, but undeniably this is true. Remember you’re the master, the king of your own life, you’re controlling it, not others. You can treat the girls like a princess but never ever treat them like a queen.
Girls like a man who has his own opinion and not just follow them blindly. They like leader not follower. Reason to emphasis this is because girls hardly fall in love with guy who is inferior to them. You can always fulfil what girls desire, but sometime you should know “how much your price is” and never put it down.
However, keep in mind that you have to keep the balance of the level of your self-esteem. If you exaggerate your efforts, girls will turn away from you. Be natural. Know your rights and just don’t let a girl feel that she is somehow superior than you are. In a nutshell, you are the person to make call.
5. Mystery and Surprise
One of the factors that drive man and woman together is mystery. You need not to tell her everything about yourself in one goal. Give both of you some time and let her explore your ‘secret garden’ by herself slowly. Girls like surprises and so do something unusual to surprise her. It doesn’t have to be anything big. Maybe just showing up at her house or work to say hello, cook her something she likes to eat, sing to her or anything she doesn’t expect.
6. Disappear Yourself
Anybody would feel annoyed when flies buzzing around our ear. So, never be an annoying fly! At some moment, you should just temporary stop calling her or date her. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she’s actually missing the vitamin of you. By this time, she’ll be so much into you and you should prove to her that you’ll always be there for her.
After all, guidelines are just guidelines. For you to success, you need more than a guideline. Your patient and self-confident are the best Cupid’s bow and arrow used to pierce into her heart. Never scare to be rejected and never self-proclaimed ‘death sentenced’. Good luck comrade!
Source Reference: How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You